Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Proud Mama

A student told me today that I spoke English well.  I tried to have my best teacher face on and to not laugh in his face. In my most sincere voice I said "Thank you; I've had lots of practice". I love students!  He then proceeded to ask me precisely where I lived. Well if were gonna get technical and if I can learn new words like Urakoze (Thank You), Mbabarira (sorry), and Ntakinto, then he is fully qualified to learn Wenatchee. So I put little Wenatchee, Washington on the map for this guy, I made him pronounce it correctly and everything, he passed the test well, and it made me smile to think about my little town so far away.

On my way back to my apartment last night after teaching I ran into some students and during our great conversation I hear behind me, "Hey, What's Up?" I just taught my students that phrase last week and low and behold it was my student greeting me as he walked by. I had a proud mamma moment. Good for him for having the courage to try his new and odd vocabulary J



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Saturday, April 24, 2010

You'll need one sheet of paper

My students groan each time they have a test or a quiz or I make them write a little something in class. It's a big 'ohhhh' times 50 people, I laugh each time they moan, did they forget they were in University? They know what's coming now 'cause each time I announce 'You'll need one sheet of paper'. And then the 'ohhhhh' comes. They threatened this week to give me an exam instead. I'm sure that if there not sick of quizzes already they will be by the time they leave my class. I choose to think of it as character building, they would probably call it torture.

This week in class we talked about: The instructions Luke, Paul and Mark have given to the Church and how we are to follow their teachings. We talked about so much, too much, should, must, desert, dessert, synonyms, antonyms, analogies and definitions. We talked about dictations and pronunciation. We discussed how a country recovers from war and the role of a leader within that recovery process. Is the BEST plan to rely on foreign aid? We talked about how a leader must help a nation with hungry people, how to teach others and how to pray for wisdom.  We talked about 'What's Up', 'Hanging Out' and being 'Busy as a Bee'.  We talked about cheating in University-should it be allowed?  We wrote papers on the characteristics of a good leader and practiced pronunciation of our L and R sounds. Do leaders always have honor, does honor follow leadership or does leadership follow honor, what is honor? How do we serve and love and help?  Why has God given me a mind and a heart and talents? We talked about their role as University Students with an education and how it makes them a leader in their community whether they like it or not.  I'm hoping most of them like it. Whew, I'm tired.





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Thursday, April 22, 2010

The beginning again

We have been many times TO the market. To buy vegetables or transfer buses but never before have we actually been INSIDE. Yesterday we went in. I don't think I have been fearful since I arrived but yesterday there was definitely a little apprehension. We have heard so many negative comments about the market, how crazy it is, how you can't walk anywhere without a crowd of followers or pick pockets around every corner. So you can see why I had a little apprehension. But a very wise woman encouraged us to go. 'Now is the time' she said, 'leave everything at home, take only the money in your pockets and go'. And so we went. I'm not sure if it's a girl thing or just a Stephanie thing but I really enjoy the hunt that comes along with shopping. It probably should have stressed me out and caused me to panic and to be alert but I actually really enjoyed it.
It was like a mega-warehouse full of goods. A hardware section, baby clothes isle, men's clothes, women's clothes, school supplies, groceries, anything and everything was there. We used our broken Kirundi and French to navigate around, weaving in and out of isles on the hunt for a hidden treasure. At last we made it do our destination, women's clothes; it was well worth the effort. There were isles and isles and racks and shelves full of clothing, I even found a dress from Wal-Mart. There were endless possibilities of shoes. I was so impressed and surprised that I had been missing out on this experience, right here in downtown Bujumbura. The best part was I walked away with a super cute black skirt and had only one attempted pick pocket!
You may have heard we recently got unlimited internet at our house. I think we've only mentioned it to maybe 100 people; we're not excited at all. This means that we haven't been to our favorite coffee shop to visit our favorite Baristas. We had a few hours to kill this morning so we went into town, simply to visit with them. It was really special to have them ask after us, 'Are you okay?' 'We haven't seen you for so many days' they asked. Maybe we were going too much? I don't know, but I did miss my barista friends, we have good conversation, they care about us, they are our community. I love that we have been here long enough where our presence is missed. And long enough to make friends in the community. Like a man who sings in the choir at church, we discovered he works downtown as a tailor, by chance we ran into him on 'fabric lane'. We have labeled it this 'cause the whole street is filled with tailors and seamstresses and shops full of fabric. Maybe he will be my tailor now.
It seems like we go through cycles. We learn and discover and meet new places and faces and then settle in, get familiar, create a routine. Then after awhile we are ready to meet, and discover and learn again. So friends, be ready. I think we are on the verge of the 'beginning again'. I'm excited, are you?



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Sunday, April 18, 2010

HAU Pride!

We went to an HAU Football Game yesterday. We played the Green Mambas (Crocodile in Swahili). We lost but still had lots of fun and even a little Mzungu pride when Javier went out to play!

Friday, April 16, 2010

What good is that?

James has been challenging me lately, causing me to wonder what good my faith is if I'm not putting it into action. This teaching has many implications but mostly I'm feeling convicted about how I treat those in need here in Burundi. He reminds us that religion is worthless if we are not visiting the widows and orphans in their affliction or if we SAY to those who are naked and hungry 'be warm and filled' but do nothing to help. His words stung a little because that is always what I say to them, "I'm sorry, I have nothing to give you." In fact just yesterday I had this phrase translated into Kirundi for me so I could better communicate with those who daily ask me to supply their need. But even if I say it in love it is a lie, I do have something to give them. I am reading a book called "When Helping Hurts" about how helping the poor can really hurt them when it's done incorrectly. The author acknowledges that hands down American's today are the richest people in history. We have so many resources and choices available to us. What right do I have to say to these people 'I have nothing to give you'. I've mentioned before that perhaps money and food for today are not the solution to the problem but what is? Are they cursed forever, set to live in poverty for the rest of their lives? What is God asking me to do? What is God asking you to do? I can't just ignore them, the reality is everywhere, the contrast so blatantly obvious. My prayer for today is that God would begin to show me how to live out my faith, how to act in obedience to what the Father is calling me to do.

James 1:27 "Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction and to keep oneself unstained for the world." 2:15 "If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, 'Go in peace, be warmed and filled,' without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that?" 

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Snickers- No Laughing Matter

Yesterday was a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day. I'll spare you the details but I will say that crying in the coffee shop or choking down tears on the bus ride home is very unafrican. I have been reminded that everyone faces discouragement but the complicated part of being a missionary is that you have the challenge of recreating your support system. You have taken yourself away from family and friends, who would be great on a bad day, and now must cope without them, as we said at camp you must 'buck-up camper'. So I tried my very best to put on a good face as I ran errands in town. The honeymoon stage has definitely worn off, the things that were super exciting at the beginning of the trip have now become usual, maybe even a little old. The things that were minor annoyances at the beginning are still annoying three months later. I was trying to push through the day without letting the bitterness sink in. I'm angry that as I walk from one shop to the next there are little childern who speak to me in French telling me they are hungry and begging me for food, for money, for attention. I'm not angry at the little child but I'm angry that I live in a world where injustice is common. I'm angry that the child has to grow up in a world where begging is 'normal' for him. I'm angry that I can't do more, that even if I gave him some food or some money it is just treating the symptom and will not change him. I walked on, past the Burundians who are still curious about my skin color and my smile or the fact I greet them in Kirundi. I wonder why some days are better than others and why I can't just skip the hard ones. In my wondering and my processing of the injustices of the world a man catches up to me, matching his stride with mine and asks me to buy something from him. In typical downtown Buja style I glance at what he is selling, trying not to seem too interested for fear he will raise the price. I was so delighted to see that he was selling candy bars. It's very typical to see people selling fruit, veggies, cheap goods dollar store style or handmade baskets but candy bars? This was a first for me. And it gets better, not just any candy bar but Snickers- my favorite! I asked him about the price, all my attempts of trying to act uninterested flew out the door. We agreed on a price, so low I bought two. As we parted ways Rachel reminded me that as unusual as that was it had to be the hand of God, it wasn't a miracle but clearly God had seen my tears in the coffee shop and was showing me love in the form of a candy bar. I walked away a bit lighter than I had started, still frustrated at the injustice of the world but a bit of hope had been restored, if God loves me enough to care about small things like candy bars then I'm sure he loves Burundi, and Bujumbura, and the hungry children more that I hurt for them and has not forgotten them.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Tierra and Anthony, this is for you

I've caved, I've began to hiss but bonus, it's totally acceptable, in fact it's normal. Definition of hissing: the proper way to get someone's attention, the preferred mode of communication as opposed to hollering, shouting, yelling or running after someone. You can hiss at the man collecting money on the bus, to notify him this is your stop or so that he will take your smelly cash. You can hiss at the students and friends walking on campus as you are on the third floor and they are in a hurried crowd beneath. You can hiss at the Mzungu as they walk by, offering them a cab ride or you can hiss at your friends in a crowded room, knowing they will hear you, like a secret code. Burundian's have this sound perfected, as if they can tune out all the insignificant hisses and just hear the ones for them. They don't even glance up in surprise they just respond appropriately, with a smile, a nod, a wave or jump in a taxi.  I must admit, though I've begun to use this form of communication I haven't quite perfected the art of tuning out the unnecessary hisses, the ones not meant for me. So I turn, I glance and look around, trying to determine who is in need of my attention. I fully support this option, why yell at your friend across campus and have everyone turn and stare and be mortified because you have just broken so many cultural norms, instead hiss, let the breath come out between your lips, being sure to place your tongue in a spot where you'll be loud enough to be heard by the desired party of your attention.

Be encouraged, development is happening. It's slow but noticable. Two weeks ago when I returned from Kenya there was a new section of 'sidewalk' (I use that term loosely) that had been paved. I noticed because it's right on the way to my favorite place to buy bread, in the heart of downtown Bujumbura, it might not have been significant to others but it was important to me, I'm sure the security guard downtown thought I was loosing it as I smiled in delight at the new piece of concrete. Also our normal bus route has been 'deviated' as the road is under major repair, I'll let you know the outcome later :) But I don't mind that small inconvenience if it means a smoother road. Thursday last week it seemed as if everyone had decided to work, there was a pipe being installed just outside the campus walls and a power source for the campus was being installed as well and a road that was being paved just east of campus. This is all good news! It's sometimes a slow process here, day after day things seem to remain the same, change is hard to come by and the infrastructure that seems so frustrating continues down the same path it has always taken so you can imagine the joy when we see things happen right before our eyes, jobs are available, change is happening and the most exciting of all development in Bujumbura continues. I just returned from a trip to Rwanda and part of me didn't expect to see anything different when I came home, I was just so happy to return (I mean it!) to my hot and sticky Buja that I didn't care how it looked but low and behold there were new signs being painted on several of the buildings. In my sappiness the work that happens is a lot like the process that must take place for Burundi to be rebuilt, to be healthy, to be a trendsetter. It might be slow but it seems to be consistent, little by little we are in the process of a transformation.

Celine, I'm pretty sure you don't read my blog but on the off chance you do PLEASE come to Burundi. It seems as if all of your number one fans are right here in Bujumbura. I say this with confidence because your faithful followers blare your music from their stereo's, which happen to be just a few doors down from mine. They feel compelled to play your music morning, noon and night. I often sing along because let's be honest who doesn't like Celine Dion? But we would love some variety, some updated music and maybe your presence here would fill their desire for good French music.


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